A common theme I have heard from our Albanian friends is that when they first became believers in Christ, their families seem not to care too much. This may be an indication of the role of faith in this culture. The Albanians seem to be a very practical people--concerned more with how to feed and support their families than theological ideas. But when an Albanian decides to marry another Christian or decides to become a Campus Crusade staff member, then the family becomes upset. The young man leading the dance in this photo comes from Kosovo. He comes from a Muslim background. When he told his parents that he was planning to marry a Christian, they were very upset. They would not even come to his wedding. He told me that he was hoping up to the very last minute that they would change their minds and come. It was obvious that this was a heart-breaking thing for him. Fortunately, it often happens that the family softens after awhile--especially after grand children arrive. Beth and I know a little about that;). Faith costs something here and living a life of faith costs even more.
Joe,
ReplyDeleteYour 'listening ear" was a blessing to the young man in the above picture. It's amazing how culture can build or destroy faith. I'm convinced that in America, our culture distorts faith. I'm anxious to hear about your experiences when you return. We pray for you.
Dan Pence